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Shopping (Compras)
HOW CAN I MANAGE COMPULSIVE
SHOPPING and SPENDING?
by Ruth C. Engs, RN, EdD
What is compulsive shopping and spending?
People who "shop 'till they drop" and run their credit cards up to the
limit often have a shopping addiction. They believe that if they shop they will
feel better. Compulsive shopping and spending generally makes a person feel
worse. It is similar to other addictive behaviors and has some of the same
characteristics as as problem drinking (alcoholism), gambling and overeating
addictions.
Compulsive shopping or spending can be a seasonal balm for the depression,
anxiety and loneliness during the December holiday season. It also can occur
when a person feels depressed, lonely and angry. Shopping and spending will not
assure more love, bolster self-esteem, or heal the hurts, regrets, stress, and
the problems of daily living. It generally makes these feelings worse because of
the increased financial debt the person has obtained from compulsive shopping.
How can you tell if you are a compulsive shopper?
Shopoholics, when they are feeling "out of sorts, shop for a "
pick-me-up." They go out and buy, to get a high, or get a "rush"
just like a drug or alcohol addict. Shopping addiction tends to affect more
women than men. They often buy things they do not need. Holiday seasons can
trigger shopping binges among those who are not compulsive the rest of the year.
Many shopping addicts go on binges all year long and may be compulsive about
buying certain items, such as shoes, kitchen items or clothing; some will buy
anything.
Women with this compulsive disorder often have racks of clothes and
possessions with the price tags still attached which have never been used. They
will go to a shopping mall with the intention of buying one or two items and
come home with bags and bags of purchases. In some cases shopololics have an
emotional "black out" and do not remember even buying the articles. If
their family or friends begin to complain about their purchases, they will often
hide the things they buy. They are often in denial about the problem. Because
they can not pay their bills their credit rating suffers, they have collection
agencies attempting to get what is owed, may have legal, social and relationship
problems. They sometimes attempt to hide their problem by taking on an extra job
to pay for bills.
How do you cure this condition?
It is recommended that shopoholic seek professional counseling or a self-help
group to deal with his or her problem. Addictive behaviors tend to
congregate, so if you have an eating disorder, a problem with drugs or alcohol,
or gambling, you may be a candidate for shopping addiction. Many communities
have credit counseling centers that will also help with shopoholism.
How do I prevent shopping binges?
Pay for
purchases by cash or check.
Make a shopping
list and only buy what is on the list.
Destroy all
credit cards except one to be used for emergency
only.
Avoid discount
warehouses. Allocate only a certain amount of cash to be spent if
you do visit one.
"Window shop"
only after stores have closed. If you do "look" during the day,
leave your wallet at home.
Avoid phoning in
catalog orders and don't watch TV shopping
channels.
If you're
traveling to visit friends or relatives, have your gifts wrapped and
call the project finished; people tend to make more extraneous
purchases when they shop outside their own communities.
Take a walk or
exercise when the urge to shop comes on.
If you feel out
of control, you probably are. Seek counseling or a support group.
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